Relationships feel harder than they used to.

We’re more connected, yet more isolated.
More informed, yet more offended.
And the mess keeps multiplying.

So the real question isn’t, “Why is the world so messy?”
It’s: Who is God going to use to shift the story?

Because God doesn’t just point out broken places—He calls people to rebuild them.

God Blesses Through Messy Families

We’re launching Bless This Mess because Scripture doesn’t pretend families are perfect. It shows the mess—but it also shows the moves that lead to healing.

God told Abraham:

“I will bless you… so that you will be a blessing… and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.” (Genesis 12:1–3)

Here’s the shocking part: blessing was promised through a broken family.
Abraham’s household wasn’t polished. It was messy—fear-based decisions, half-truths, conflict patterns, jealousy, favoritism, betrayal, and blame-shifting.

Genesis doesn’t hide the dysfunction—and that’s good news.

Two big truths

1. God’s blessing is bigger than their dysfunction. If He could bless their mess, He can bless mine.
2. God uses people to bless what’s messy. Hurt people hurt people. Healed people heal people. Loved people love people.

Isaiah 58: When Heaven Ignores Religion

Week one is about Rebuilders, and there’s no better place to start than Isaiah 58.

These were people who looked spiritual—fasting, praying, showing up—but their relationships were a wreck. They loved God in public, yet treated people poorly in private. And they couldn’t figure out why nothing was changing:

“Why have we fasted, but You have not seen?” (Isaiah 58:3)

God’s answer was blunt: you’re doing religious things, but your heart is still centered on yourself. Churchy on the outside, unchanged on the inside. That’s the kind of faith the world hates—and the kind heaven ignores.

Then God recalibrates them: real spirituality produces real restoration.

The Heart of a Rebuilder

1) Get over yourself

Their fasting was still about me. And that’s not just an ancient issue—it’s a modern one. We’ve been trained to filter everything through “What’s in it for me?”

But the New Testament is full of “one another”: love one another, forgive one another, pray for one another, build up one another. Jesus said the world would recognize His disciples by love for one another.

Nothing makes you more useful to God than the ability to get over yourself—choosing purpose over pleasure, towel over table.

2) Get in someone else’s corner

God says the fast He chooses looks like this:

break chains, set the oppressed free, feed the hungry, bring in the poor, clothe the naked (Isaiah 58:6–7)

The driving question of a Christlike life is: Who am I serving? Who am I helping? What need am I meeting?
Jesus “came not to be served, but to serve” (Mark 10:45).

When we serve people, God breaks chains we can’t see.
Revival happens when we stop fighting with people and start fighting for people.

3) Get started on the work

Haggai comes with a simple command:

“Go up into the hills, bring down lumber, and build the house.” (Haggai 1:7–8)

You can’t rebuild everything in one day. But you can start.

Broken relationship? Start the conversation.
Broken person? Meet the need you can meet.
Broken community? Grab what you have and begin.

Blessed Are the Rebuilders

We’re living among ruins—fractured families, strained marriages, lonely people, shallow friendships.

God isn’t just calling out the mess.
He’s calling rebuilders.

People who get over themselves, get in someone else’s corner, and get started on the work.

Be a repairer of broken places.
A restorer of what’s been lost.
A blessing in the middle of the mess.